Tuesday, July 22, 2008

> man-thing

i overheard a group of women were talking and arguing about their exes.... some of them complaining how bad their exes were....and at the same time... elevating a few man they knew whom minor of them agreed is the perfect example of ' the man ' or a ' real man '! ....and that made me ponder about what exactly women mean when they say,
' NOW, THAT'S A REAL MAN! '

so i decided to ask you, ladies+gentlemen, what you thought a 'real man' is? i could have learn something here..

ciao!
ps; there will be a blogging break until after sunday. i have to get lost in saigon to look for the happy!

12 comments:

  1. Comm,

    Real man is a man who is responsible, sensitive to your needs and at the same time romantic and you feel so secure when u r with him....

    tapi ade ke yang macam tu?

    i always get either or... and ada jugak yg neither nor... so i settle for the second best.. which honestly the best for me....

    a real man doesnt ask for your money...

    a real man is responsible....

    a real man helps you in the kitchen...

    a real man does your laundry.. (washing, folding, ironing...)

    a real man vacuums and mops the house..

    a real man is able to act silly..

    a real man is able to talk to you "babyishly"...

    a real man laughs when you fart...

    a real man loves you fat or thin...ugly or beautiful...

    a real man supports what you love doing, even if doing it leaves the house unorganised and most of the time very very messy...

    a real man loves your frens....

    at this time, that all i can thk abt...but anyway, to me you are a real man too...

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  2. see you at the airport later...

    sd, takyah tipu dah... mak dah balik.. hahahahahahaha yeah... tak payah tido....

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  3. Baru nak comment, Aiz dah pre-empt. Definition of real man, kena tanya Jazz. I've never dated a man before.

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  4. a real man can read women's mind.. a mind reader..but only 'read' what she wants him to read heheh

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  5. I suppose every women wanna answer this question but it really depends on the individual woman on what they mean "a real man". I don't think so you'll get any right or wrong answer to it. I gotta admit women are very difficult to understand. A natural answer is probably safe to say that a real man to a certain woman would be that the man understands what the certain woman feels, wants and needs. Unpredictable.
    Yeah, brain damage, i know.. I have difficulty understanding myself and other women too sometimes ;-) It would be slightly easier for you to learn to understand what your woman want in a real man rather looking it in general..
    Good Luck ;-)

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  6. To assume that this is a question that all women can answer is dangerous. Same goes for the assumption that ONLY women can answer.

    To answer that question is similar to answering the question - "What is a real toilet seat?"

    For those who need a REAL TOILET SEAT:-
    In times of need, any will do.
    If really desperate times, you don't even need one, just go yourself.
    Sometimes tak tahan, can use the ones you have to pay for....
    Some no need to pay, but cleanliness and hygiene maybe questionable....
    When you really think about it, it's got to feel good in, on and around your ass or groin area, depending on what you need...

    So if you can answer the above-question, then you can answer your own question which you posted.

    Thank you. I know, I know, it's a gift that is sometimes a curse, but you've gotta live with what god (and your mama) gave ya... ces't la vie, or whatever the spelling is....

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  7. aiz the celebrity,
    be-ra-vo..wakdin keep up the good work k.
    ok...tang yg last skali tu...terimakasih ye

    sd,
    no news frm jazz? but i guess i knew the answer..

    neome,
    you are absolutely right! wish i hv the ability to hear what women are really thinking...it'll be fun!

    cat,
    yup-yup, women are difficult to decipher..else life wont be challenging haha ops!

    gom,
    the metaphor seems logic, but can we change it to a porche car-seats instead of a toilet seat...lol

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  8. I also dun understand man.

    NEXXXTT!!

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  9. husni,u dont understand urself...too complex haha

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  10. nexxxtt..as in next post please :-)

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  11. to me,there is nothing generic about being a real man... it's tough to fit into a nutshell what it is... because who ever is describing what a real man is to them... is describing what a real man is to them...yes?
    and that cannot be the standard for what a real man is... because it is only the description for that person who is doing the describing...

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