Wednesday, February 13, 2008

5 women u can never date.

Certain ladies shouldn't be touched with a 10-foot pole, no matter how hot,how cool,how kind how...whatever... they are! Instead of giving in to temptation, pls stay away frm them...take a class or hang up with friends or take in a ballgame or just do anything to distract yourself frm the desire...
the reason to avoid these ladies has nothing to do with the woman herself, but it has everything to do with her context in your life.Read on and save your fragile heart, ur skinny bank account, ur job???, and your friendships.

1.The ex-girlfriend
ex-girlfriend becomes increasingly seductive as loneliness sets in. After several years of eating the only three meals you know how to prepare ( instant noodle/pasta with instant saurce/ reheat leftover meal frm sis's hse ), you can easily get blown away when she follows up chicken lasagna one night with chicken kurma the next. She might clean your apartment one day while you were away, and you'll want her back. The loneliness will make you forget the reason the two of you broke up in the first place, but should you jump back into the relationship, those reasons will resurface in no time( article frm )

2.Your friend's ex
When you witness the breakup of your buddy and his hot girlfriend, your mind will invariably wander to a place better left untouched. Since you’ve spent lots of time around her, you already have an established relationship -- albeit a non-sexual one. Chances are you already imagined what it would be like while she was still dating your pal, and her new freedom may pique your interest, If you value your friendship, avoid her at all costs. What men forget to consider is the aftermath of hooking up with a friend’s ex. The word will spread to everyone else in your circle about what type of friend you are, and you’ll kill your own reputation. It doesn’t matter how long ago they broke up, whether they’re friends now or not, if your buddy’s replaced her with a new girlfriend, the answer is always no. Unless, of course, you enjoy getting your ass kicked.

3.Your best friend's sister
The woman you know the best will often appeal to you the most. But if she is your best friend's sister or errr sis in-law...????, getting lucky can mean two months of fun followed by the need to move to another part of the city/kampung. as soon as sis becomes sweetheart, you'll be walking on eggshells with your buddy. Gone are the days of complaining to your friend about your women troubles because the conflict of interest ruins the good times, and the first time you make a mess of things, he will likely want to beat your ass.

4.Your secretary/office mate!!
There are plenty of reasons to keep your mitts off the help. It can get you into all kinds of trouble -- legal and otherwise -- should the relationship go south. But even if the fling goes well, you have problems. You'll soon be tempted to push the limits of what you can get away with at work, perhaps in the janitor's closet.Love at the office is an enormous distraction from your work, especially if you are in charge of her. Others are always watching what you are doing. Worst of all, once the relationship ends, she will enjoy leverage over you, and may use it simply by gossiping about what happened in the aforementioned closet.

5.The high-maintenance piranha
She will love you for your increased earnings at first, but then will consider you to be a soulless workaholic incapable of intimacy. Once you've built up a nest egg, her divorced friends will start directing her on how to devour that nest egg whole, just like a snake. She will give you the screw of a lifetime, but not the kind you’re seeking!!!

Men Have Feelings Too

Someone once said that women are the ones with feelings. Men are the thinkers and fixers.
no, we have feelings too, but often refuse to acknowledge them, much less talk about it, seldom to our friend or significant other and..... especially not to other men. it is a sign of weakness....yes? no?
or it is a sign of strength and of courage?